Dear RentMen Visitors, Recently MrJman chose to answer 7 interview questions and his interview was last updated on .
What kind of diet and fitness regiment do you follow?
Ok so this question is simple for me and I am sure some are going to not like my answer. I don't diet and I hardly ever work out. Well scratch that I never work out. Even at a very young age my metabolism has always been in over drive. I love food and my body loves it more. I can eat anything I want and my body just burns it off. I've always been slim and skinny. I have been told i should go eat a hamburger or two. I'm like I will eat 5 burgers given the opportunity. I don't just sit here and eat junk food either. I just simply don't have to worry about calorie intake or sugar levels. I hope that's still the case in 30 years but time will only tell.
What’s your lifestyle? What makes you who you are?
My life style is not made from a cookie cutter mold, I am eccentric, bold, edgy, and colorful. I am an extravert through and through. According to the Meyer's brigs personality test I am the performer. I live my life in the fast lane, I am the life of the party, the go getter. I am spontaneous and usually I am living life on the edge. I hate making plans because you never know what's going to happen. Plus if I don't make plans then I'm not disappointing anyone when I don't show up for said plans. As I have said before I love people and I get my energy from being around other people. I hate being by myself and I hate being confined indoors or stuck in one place. I have lived all over New England and hope to see more of the country I live in. In all I'm a fun loving person with my own style and my own perception of life.
What would you like your followers to know about you that is unique and even a bit personal?
People call me a bitch, They whisper ice queen behind my back, they tell me I'm to harsh with the words that come out of my mouth. An yes sometimes I agree with what they say.....But deep down I'm just scared and I'm shy and insecure about myself. I put on the bad ass "mask" to deflect people from seeing how weak I feel on the inside. I have always been good at being bad. I put on this show of force so no one ever really gets to know the real me. I don't know if its unique but it is personal and honest.
If you and I were on the beach having some wine and great food, what would you tell me about yourself.
I would tell you that my greatest fear is that I'm going to spend my life alone. I once was married and I had thought that I had figured it all out. That I had married the man of my dreams. I thought that I would be golden for the rest of my life. Sounds happy right.....Wrong I was living in a nightmare of a life fabricated by a man who made me codependent on him and isolated me from my friends and family. So naturally a divorce was in my future and that's when my whole reality was destroyed. So as I sit sipping wine with you I cant fully let go of the hesitation and be 100 percent in the moment with you. I'm always on guard and have big thick walls put up around my heart and I don't know if I will ever be able to break them down.
What should others absolutely know about you?
Well this is not a hard question for me to answer. Everyone should know that I am 100% honest. If no one knows this by now they will. I don't have any issue with the truth. Life is to short and I don't have the time to beat around the bush. In fact I'm more apt to grabbing said bush by the roots and pulling it up out of my way. No need to beat around it when you can just be straight forward and go the most direct way. I believe being honest is one thing that people love most about me. I don't like to embellish the truth, there is enough of that already going on in the world no need to add to it. Plus being honest keeps you honest and people actually like you for it. I can not claim to be perfect or a saint by any means. But I do my best to keep it real and in turn I get real in return.
What do you enjoy most about yourself?
So I am a cancer I was born in July. Now being a cancer is great it has it's advantages and disadvantages. Being a cancer I have this natural sense of what people are feeling. I don't just sense what someone is feeling I actually feel what their emotions are. I'm hyper sensitive to emotions and feelings. I can tell if someone is sad, or uneasy, tense, and so on. Why is this something I enjoy about me you ask....Well I don't just enjoy this ability I love it. It has helped me see how people live and deal with life. Life can be hard and uncaring at times. That's when I like to step in and offer any kind of help I can. If someone is sad I get them to laugh a little. If someone is mad I can offer a ear for them to vent and let off some frustrations. You could say that I'm a emotional vacuum cleaner for those around me. When I'm around the room lights up and you can just feel the good positive energy. I love people and I love making those around me feel safe and happy.
Name 5 things that you can’t live without.
My number one weakness is life saver's gummy, give me a few bags of those and it's a wrap for me. Number 2 cant live without would have to be my contact lenses, I have lived most of my life wearing corrective lenses. I recently switched to contacts, and its been the most freeing feeling I have ever had. Now that brings me to my 3rd live without...Sun glasses, and I don't mean just one pair. Since I started using contacts I have developed and collected a pretty good collection of eye wear. Number 4 live without would have to be my sense of adventure. I love the outdoors I love to go hiking and explore new places and see life in it's natural from. I love meeting new people and exploring the greatest adventure of all....LIFE. For my last live without I have a hard time with because the very problem is just that TIME. As time moves forward we all are moving with it caught in it's grasp. My last live without is my mother. No I don't live at home and no I'm not dependent on her. I just love my mother and the thought of loosing her as I continue to get older is a thought that's to unthinkable. So as time does progress I cherish every moment as if its my last.