Dear RentMen visitors, Chris_Amsterdam chose to answer 16 interview questions that were last updated on 17 Sep 2021

Interview

  • What’s your lifestyle? What makes you who you are?
    That is a very broad question. I would say being active and always looking for the next opportunity that will arise!
  • What would you like your followers to know about you that is unique and even a bit personal?
    Since my early 20s, I am (somewhat successfully) dealing with mental health issues. I do not think that this is unique - after all, most of us deal with something, whether diagnosed or not. I do find it important, though, that we speak out and make ourselves visible! ...And that is what I am doing with this interview answer, right here, right now. After all, we are just next door people living, most probably, a common life like you.
  • If you have to pick one thing that everyone else should absolutely know about you, what would it be?
    I love engaging with the people i meet on multiple levels and offering them a carefully tailored and personalised experience. All I ask from you is to be bold, speak your mind, and express your wishes; the rest is on me ;)
  • What are your hobbies? What do you like to do in your spare time?
    Simple things. Laying in a park, doing yoga, reading something, usually essays on topics of personal interest as I am not patient for literature, day-dreaming, going to an exhibition of contemporary art, dating for fun, stuff like that :)
  • How do you go that ‘extra mile' in your life?
    By reviewing all the "miles" I have done so far and learning out of the experiences they offered me. This helps fine-tune myself and makes it possible to walk the next "extra mile" in my life.
  • What do you do for fun?
    Partying at clubs all night long! I prefer underground clubs and techno music. Nevertheless, when it comes to a day or night out I am a chameleon and can enjoy all sorts of different venues. What is your way of having fun?
  • What is your ‘niche’?
    My "niche" is building a connection with the people that I meet, offering a real BF experience, and nurturing intimacy between us. Regardless of age, looks, or background, there is always a way to connect, and that is what I am good at.

    I am also good in offering relaxing full-body massages and making guys tremble with my handjobs ;)
  • What makes you stand out from the crowd?
    I am not a competitive person, and I am not really looking into what distinguishes me from other people.
  • Tell us what you consider to be your greatest life experience.
    I believe it must have been visiting a swingers club with my, then, partner. It is not because of the things that happened there, (very common things happened there), but because it was the first time for me to experience playing with multiple people. Group sex was a fantasy of mine since my teens, and by that time I was already 29 ... Beautiful night :)
  • What are your greatest personal traits?
    I have been told I am a good listener and that my presence is calming. People feel safe to open up and discuss issues they deal with. I would say, then, that building a personal rapport with people around me is one of my greatest traits.
  • How often do you travel? Do you prefer to travel or you are more of a homebody?
    I travel often since I live in a country other than my own. I also travel often around western Europe for leisure and fun. Usually, I rent a room somewhere with friends and enjoy the local club scene, while pretending to be interested in museums during the day :)

    Corona update: I read my answer to this question and reminisce the pre-corona times...
  • What kind of diet and fitness regiment do you follow?
    For the past couple of years, I am practising yoga and my diet is plant-based for about a decade. Through yoga, I have built a strong upper body and a firm hand grip. Both come particularly handy (pun intended) when offering deep and restoring massage sessions ;)
  • If you and I were on the beach having some wine and great food, what would you tell me about yourself.
    I would tell you about my story into ***ing, the great and the not-so-great aspects of it. I would also ask you about your life, and who you are outside our date.

    After the third glass of wine, I would spice things up by sharing sexual fantasies with you and whispering inappropriate thoughts to your ears. I can tell you, already, I am good at storytelling and ...dirty talking ;)
  • What should others absolutely know about you?
    I think others should know that I am very mindful of my personal boundaries and I get absolutely turned-off when they do not respect them, or try to bypass them.

    Of course, I extend the same courtesy to the people I meet with. It is very important to me that the person I meet with feels safe and comfortable in our interaction.
  • What do you enjoy most about yourself?
    I dive heads-on to new experiences, and, yeah, that is something I like about myself. Stepping into unknown territories excites me!
  • Name 5 things that you can’t live without.
    There is nothing I can't live without. I am resilient and resourceful. I love red wine, if that's what you ask me :)